7 Ways To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back

 Have you just been dumped by your boyfriend?
Getting your ex back is tough at the best of times, but  when you are under the emotional strain of just having broken up, sometimes your judgment is not all that it should be.

1.    Are you sure you need him back back?  You know, you will be able to move forward with your life without him, even though it is hard right now. So this is the first question you need to ask yourself. If he is super special or has some things about him which you really like, then by all means, give it your best shot. If, on the other hand he is nothing special, take a good long think and maybe you will decide there are “better fish in the sea” To get your ex back might not be necessary at all, you might just be ready to explore all the possibilities.

2.    Decide exactly why you broke up.   Have a “deep and meaningful” with yourself about why exactly you broke up. Was it something which had been brewing over time, or was it that you were both not really suited  and stuck it out until the inevitable day. Was it something you said in the heat of the moment? If he wanted you to change some of your habits or the way you relate, consider if you can make those changes or you want to stay just as you are.

3.    Make sure that you don’t annoy him. Resist the temptation to phone or text him constantly. Contact is fine, but try to space your messages or calls out just a little longer than you normally would. Just create some doubt in his mind that you might not contact him! At this point both of you need your own time and space to think things through and if the reconciliation is to happen, it will have a much better chance of surviving if due consideration has been given. If you re going to get your boyfriend back, you want  the next time to be permanent.

4.    Its important not to manipulate him.  Its sometimes tempting to try to make him jealous if you happen to be with your old crowd. These actions will certainly put him off an drive a wedge deeper into the breakup.

5.    You must play hard to get.  This is a really important point. Make sure you show little affection and maintain an aloofness in your dealings and contact with him. After all, if you want him back you need to get him back because he wants you.
Guys do enjoy the challenge!

6.    Don’ use friends or colleagues as middlemen. It’s tempting to use your girlfriends to “check out the ex”. Resist this at all costs. It is always seen through and guys just hate it.

7.    If he has a new girlfriend –don’t sweat it. It’s a very common thing for a guy to hook up with a new girlfriend soon after a breakup. Just be calm and keep working on your plan. Let him see that you are really the girl for him and that you are all he wants in a girl.